Electronic Security in Divorce and Privacy Concerns

Electronic Security in Divorce and Privacy Concerns Electronic security in divorce and privacy are big issues in modern day divorce and custody suits. Spouses are using shared accounts and devices to access information that could be used at trial. More attorneys are sending electronic preservation letters to opposing parties to preserve your electronic accounts, text messages, emails, […]

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Basics in Equitable Distribution: Presumptions, Factors, and Interesting factors

By Jennifer Hames

Basics in Equitable Distribution: Presumptions, Factors, and Interesting factors. Absent a separation agreement or settlement, North Carolina courts will decide what is a fair, reasonable, and equitable division of assets looks like. Typically, there is a presumption of an equal division of property between the properties. The courts may consider any factors that are outlined in

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Help your child develop coping skills during divorce

By Jennifer Hames

Help your child develop critical coping skills during divorce The New York Times recently published an article on how parents can help their child develop coping skills during their divorce. The premise is not to excuse away negative emotions the child is experiencing, but rather work through their feelings. The article interviews child psychologists about

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Document, Document, Document in Equitable Distribution in North Carolina

By Jennifer Hames

Documentation is the key to Equitable Distribution Clients often ask what they need to be doing during for equitable distribution in North Carolina. My advice will always be to document, document, document. Want to make your divorce attorney very happy? Save these documents for Equitable Distrubtion from the date you separated until your case is resolved.

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Five Things to Know About Traffic Tickets in Lincoln County

By Jennifer Hames

Never just pay the ticket online without talking to a lawyer first. Often, an officer will point to the back of the ticket with the instructions on how to pay the ticket online. Don’t. Traffic tickets can result in an insurance increase or loss of your license. Hiring a lawyer is less expensive than you think.

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Child Support and Custody Modification in North Carolina

By Jennifer Hames

Motion to Modify Child Support and Custody are required in North Carolina New case law establishes that a motion to modify must be filed prior to modifying any permanent order of the court. This effects child support modification. Here are a few things you should know: How a Child Support or Custody Order becomes Permanent:

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High Conflict Personalities in Family Law Cases

By Jennifer Hames

More and more, personalities of the parties is a major factor in dragging out court proceedings, reaching a reasonable settlement, and/or increasing attorney fee cost. High conflict personalities are often characterized by the following: Preoccupation with blaming others Inability to accept responsibility for one’s own actions Uncontrollable negative emotions Personal based attacks Triggering conflicts with

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Social Media and Divorce

By Jennifer Hames

“Dance like no one is watching, email like it will one day be read in a deposition” I often use Facebook messages, posts, or photos in family court matters. Often, these posts can prove contempt of court, an illicit affair, or assist my client in obtaining a favorable custody settlement. It may feel good to post a

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Considerations in Child Custody

By Jennifer Hames

I’m often asked what a parent should be doing concerning their children in the initial stages of a divorce or the end of a relationship. Here is a list of my recommendations: Stability is key at this point in your child’s life. Whether its maintaining a schedule, staying in the same school district, your child

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Tax Issues in Divorce

By Jennifer Hames

Every separation is unique. Some separations involve complex tax issues that require an experienced family law attorney to avoid any additional tax consequences on your end. Here are some examples: Child support and Dependent Deduction: child support payments are not deductible by the payor or taxable by the payee. Dependency exemptions vary case by case.

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